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Santa Claus

2011-12-23T13:02:00.000-08:00

The arrival of Santa Claus in the early hours of the 25th of December is the next and probably the most important winter celebration. The jovial old man with a big white beard, red and white clothes, also known as Father Christmas, arrives thru the chimney, and then leaves gifts under the Christmas tree.

It is obviously wonderful to perpetuate the belief in the mythical figure that is Santa Claus. Nevertheless, his creation is based on the Saint we’ve discussed before, Saint Nicholas of Myra. So, if you every have had doubts regarding whether you should tell your child that Santa is real or not, think about the fact that childhood is the time when magic and the inexplicable seem real and believable. Your children will be more open to the wonders of life if you preserve the illusion of existence of Santa Claus. They will, however, be old enough to figure out that he doesn’t exist at one point, but even if they are disappointed, soon they will learn to appreciate the innocence and magic of that time when they truly believed in Santa.

As the writer Frank Church once wrote, Santa Claus “exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exists, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy”. Make of the this celebration something more than just a day of receiving gifts, make it a day for being generous to others too. This should be a day when they can share with other children less fortunate and a time of reflection on their behavior, a time to practice good deeds for a few days and weeks.

Teach your children that even if they learn that Santa Claus is just a figment of imagination they wouldn’t be mean and spoil the magic for other kids or for smaller siblings who still believe in him.

The existence of Santa Claus is a fantastic tradition to keep whether you are rich or poor because, ultimately, it is not about giving expensive gifts, but only about the simple act of giving something, be it small or symbolic. That is also a reason why, you could practice with your children, once they are old enough, donating clothes or meals to the people who are less fortunate instead of Christmas gifts. Teach them that they can also be Santa Claus.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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Pets and children

2011-12-17T13:07:00.000-08:00

You might have had a pet when you were younger, or might have even given up your furry friend when you found out you were pregnant for fear it might be detrimental to your child’s wellbeing. Yet, now that he is bigger, you could consider giving him a loyal dog, a delicate cat, a parakeet or even a tank full of fish. It might take a lot of consideration because you don’t know if your child is ready for a pet yet. Either you don’t feel like he is responsible enough and that you might end up taking care of it, or you are afraid that the pet you will choose might eventually hurt your child.

A study published in 2000, by New Mexico child psychologist Robert E. Bierer, explored the relationship between pets and children. He measured the effect pet dogs had on children aged 10 to 12 years old. His conclusion was that having a dog has a statistically higher impact on self esteem and empathy.

Moreover, occupational therapist and executive director of Animals As Intermediaries program, Rebecca Reynolds Weil, underlines that through their pets, children learn how the world and the living things are interconnected. Animals stimulate children’s curiosity and they develop a more subtle sense of communication. Children will be very curious about what their pet feels and this will only lead to them developing a curiosity about the feelings of other people, making him empathise more.

They learn how to sense when their pet is pleased, hungry, excited, playful, tired etc. without using a conventional language. Thus, they will find it easy to apply what they learn through the interaction with their animals in their human relationships.

Having pets will enable their fostering skills. They will know they are responsible for the wellbeing of another animated being. They’ll have to learn how to keep it healthy and happy. Once they know what are the basics of being responsible for a pet they will start being more responsible with themselves.

Although you have to insist that your child must be the one that takes most care of the pet, he will never know what to do unless you explain him. Make sure you always keep an eye on him and be ready to step in whenever necessary. If there is goodwill and love for animals your will become a complete family by adopting a pet.

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Kids and Saint Nicholas

2011-12-03T11:25:00.000-08:00

On 6th of December Saint Nicholas Day marks the beginning of the winter celebrations. It’s the time when children all over the world wait impatiently for the Saint’s nightly visit to receive the presents.

Saint Nicholas's celebration is, in fact, all about giving. This celebration is meant to teach and remind children about the generous and giving Saint, a Turkish, third century, Christian bishop, who was known to give presents in secret, especially to those in need.

Your kids should know as well if they are good, well behaved and kind, they will “secretly” receive cookies, candies, oranges or apples in their boots from the Saint. If not, all they'll get is, depending on the different traditions, either a lump of coal or a rod. Also, remember that Saint Nick’s day is not about offering costly or impressive gifts, but rather a way of appreciating your children’s good deeds in a symbolic manner. Teach them to be equally generous with those in need, as that is the essence of this celebration. So, whatever they get in their boots they should share with their peers.

Depending on the country where this day is celebrated, children wait for the arrival of the Saint leaving hay, water, carrots or turnips, wine and a sugar lump for the Saint’s horse (in some countries Saint Nick is depicted being carried by a horse) by their doors. Also, in other countries children and their parents or teachers go from house to house and sing Saint Nicholas carols. They carry wicker baskets for fruits, nuts, eggs and sausages which the neighbours give in return.

Yet, though each culture has different traditions, this celebration’s main characteristic is the fact that people and children should offer gifts to those who are less fortunate. Giving is a virtue that you should instill to your kids and Saint Nicholas day is one of the best ways you can demonstrate this.

Happy Winter Holidays!

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Halloween safety tips

2011-10-30T12:21:00.000-07:00

Each 31st of October children around the world, including yours, will be going to “trick or treat” full of excitement and glee. But despite being such an enjoyable celebration, through its nature, Halloween also means precautions must be taken into account when going with your kids to trick or treat.

First of all, you should make a map of their route so that you can avoid unsafe or dangerous areas with obstacles or broken pavements. You will avoid tripping and falling or walking through poorly lit streets. Also, make sure children have something lit on them, like a small flashlight, flashing attire or even consider making them wear light-up shoes or sneakers. This way your will ensure that they can’t be missed in the dark.

Then, you should carefully pick the shoes that your kids are going to wear. It’s best if you skip on the shoes that came with the costume because they won’t be comfortable enough and just go for sneakers or boots.

When you buy a costume containing a mask, make sure that it allows full visibility and breathing. If the holes are too small and you kid is still set on that costume you can make them larger with some scissors. It’s very important that the mask that can be easily be put on and off.
The costumes should be appropriate to the weather in the area you live in. If it’s very warm outside they shouldn’t be wearing thick and furry costumes and, likewise, if you’re facing cool evenings make sure your kid’s costumes are keeping them warm.

Teach your kids that they should only trick or treat the houses that are lit. Usually, neighbours that don’t want to be bothered keep their lights off. Also, keep in mind that you don’t go past 9 pm. This way the trick and trickers won’t disturb the residents and will also have time to enjoy their treats.

The children should be fed a consistent meal before they go trick or treat and they should also have a small bottle of water on them all the time so that they can stay hydrated.
If your children decide to go trick or treat with a group of other children make sure a parent will accompany them along their way or you could volunteer to be their supervisor.

Before leaving for the expedition check that your kids have went to the bathroom first then give them some final advice on how they should properly behave and wish them a fruitful trick or treat.

Happy Halloween!

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Ensuring that your kid stays healthy in school - Part I

2011-10-14T14:05:00.000-07:00

Once your child starts going to kindergarten or just straight to school you might notice that his immune system will be challenged and the he might get sick easier than before. It only takes one child in a class to have a cold or a virus and it will immediately spread among his peers. Being in a community will, most likely, make him predisposed to sickness.

When it comes to viruses the most effective method that would prevent their spread among your kids colleagues is a very good hygiene or, more simple, washing hands. You must teach your children to wash their hands whenever they use the restroom, before they eat, and after they sneezed, blown their noses, came back from outside, where they played or just walked. You should also try to explain them why washing hands is necessary ever since they are old enough to understand. Continue to repeat this and talk to his teacher to also insist on the hand washing practice in class. This way, your kid will be less likely to forget.

Moreover, besides washing hands there are also other precautions that are equally important such as: teaching the children that they should cover their mouth and nose with their hands when sneezing or coughing. Then, they must wash the hands or use a sanitary, antibacterial solution (this could be either alcohol based or an evaporating gel). However, this antibacterial solution should only be used when they don’t have any proper means to wash their hands with water and soap. Children should also avoid touching their eyes or putting their fingers in their mouth when they haven’t washed their hands.

To be continued...

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Cooking recipes for your kids

2011-09-28T14:14:00.000-07:00

Fish Smarty is proposing a new set of activities for parents and children. Cooking together - recipes for kids; easy and fun outdoor activities.

Egg flowers

What do you need?
1 hard boiled egg;
1 piece of toast with butter;
Jelly;

It’s best if you have a cookie cutter so that you let your child cut the hard boiled eggs in perfect circles. Show your child how to arrange the egg circles to form a flower, then let him give it a try.

Put a piece of colored jelly in the center of the egg slices. To make the leafs and the stem use the toast greased with butter in the shape of a longer strip and 2 triangles (the leafs).

Your kid will be thrilled to help you prepare the flowers and to eat them.

Encourage him to experiment and create new shapes.

French toast

What do you need?
1 egg;
1/3 cup of milk;
1/8 spoon of vanilla;
or
1 egg;
4 spoons of flour;
1/3 cup of milk;

For both recipes, lightly whip the egg and add the other two ingredients. Ask your child to moist the bread in the mix while you fry the bread in an oiled pan, at a medium temperature until it becomes light brown on both sides. Each composition is sufficient for three slices of bread. French toast is a wonderful recipe which combines bread, eggs and milk for your child enjoyment!

After each cooking session ask your kids to help you clean up. They need to be part of each step of the process: cooking, cleaning and eating. Also, teach them to share with their friends and peers the food they have. It will help them be more giving, more sociable and less inclined to greed.

Cooking can bring together your kids and it can enhance the interaction between them and the other kids they interact with.

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What to do when it rains?

2011-08-25T01:01:00.000-07:00

Rainy days are often a little sad and boring on a holiday for children. Parents find themselves in a situation in which they must come up with something equally fun as the outdoors for their children.

However, with a little bit of imagination and creativity parents and children can spend quality time indoors as well. You might think hopscotch is only meant to be played on the pavement, yet consider making your own indoor hopscotch with colored tape. This game can last for quite a while because it is so entertaining for children, no matter the place.

Making a camp in the children’s room or even in the hotel room will be very entertaining for them. They could either pretend they are characters of an adventure tale or that they went camping. They might even sleep in the improvised tent and this will prove to be very entertaining.

You might think that if you have to look after your children you might not have time to cook. Bring them along in the kitchen and ask them to help you. They will be particularly thrilled when you will be cooking sweets. Try not to choose something complicated and give them precise tasks such as washing the vegetables, mixing some ingredients or peeling fruits. They will enjoy doing something new and they will be particularly thrilled of seeing the result of their hard work.

If they are old enough, you should teach your children how to play cards, board games or chess. Reading, also if they are old enough, will be one of their favorite indoor activities if you show them that it is not a boring or mandatory activity. Allow them to choose their own books.

However, if they don’t feel like doing any of the above, don’t be afraid, grab some raincoats, some rain boots and some umbrellas and go outside where you can explore the environment in a way that is new to them. Allow them to run around, to get dirty, to feel the rain and the windy weather. They’ll love it!

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Outdoor Expedition Part I

2011-08-07T14:47:00.000-07:00

Children and the outdoor spaces are deeply interconnected.

A child’s place is definitely in the outdoors as nature plays an elementary role in their development. Yet, leaving for expeditions in the outer environment raises many concerns for each parent. They either worry too much, or don’t worry at all. Below you can find some helpful advice for your outdoor exploration with your children.

As tempting as it may be to keep your child in the safety of your hour house or of your back yard, or even of the park you go on a daily basis, you should be more endearing, step outside the safety zone, and try new things, more fresh air, and new areas. It will only be beneficial for your little man. It is best that each time you go ahead to the outdoors you pick your place wisely considering two or more from these elements: grass, trees, sand, mud, water, flowers or animals.

Once, children had numerous places for free play. They played everywhere, on the streets, sidewalk, alleys, be it park or a vacant parcel that the city offered. In the suburbs or villages they took advantage of the forests, rivers or fields. The opportunities were limitless and that with little or no parental supervision. Nobody worried something might happen. Now, the situation has changed considerably. Parents worry and are fearful so they carefully supervise every step their child makes. Therefore, children usually stay and play indoors or most of they outdoors activities consist of learning and playing sports.

Still, parents should go head for the outskirts of the city to allow their children to play in the woods, to head for the lake or the river or to run around the grassy fields. Remember, children can easily get bored. This is why they can choose from a variety of outdoor games they can play.

No Kids Allowed movement is spreading

2011-07-28T02:06:00.000-07:00

Fish Smarty is a well known supporter of Kids Allowed Movement, however recently it came to his attention that children all over US are ban in specific public places.

Read more here: What's the matter with kids today and why doesn't anyone want them around? In June, Malaysia Airlines banned babies from many of their first class cabins, prompting other major airlines to consider similar policies.

Lately, complaints about screaming kids are being taken seriously, not only by airlines, but by hotels, movie theaters, restaurants, and even grocery stores.

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/the-no-kids-allowed-movement-is-spreading-2516110/

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10-Year-Old 'Workout Kid' Has Grade Schoolers Sweating And Football Coaches Drooling

2011-07-19T01:58:00.000-07:00

That's an interesting article on Kids health and sport.

C.J. Senter may or may not be the next Tony Horton or the next Barry Sanders, but he is definitely the next 10-year-old to watch.

Granted, when most people hear "child prodigy," they rightfully raise an eyebrow and wonder who is pulling the strings. Add a workout DVD by a fourth-grader with sculpted muscles to the mix and "cute" can turn to "concerning." But it turns out the story behind "C.J. The Workout Kid" is a lot more inspiring than insidious....

More information here.

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Foreign Languages from an early age

2011-07-11T01:53:00.000-07:00

We live in a highly multicultural and global society. We face new situations in which we are forced to contact people almost on a daily basis. As we are required to increase our communication skills by learning foreign languages (minimum one, preferably three) so will our children have to meet the demands of an overly diverse society.

That's why it's better to prepare them for the world they will be living in, not just for lucrative reasons, but also because learning foreign languages will be extremely beneficial for their mental and psychological development.

It is a well known fact that children are far more receptive to all kinds of information than adults. This rule applied to learning foreign languages too. Recently, a Romanian deputy made a legislative proposal according to which all movies that play on both cinemas and TV stations would have to be dubbed in Romanian. Apparently, this initiative would help promote the national culture and Romanian language. However, the public outcry was tremendous. Facebook groups were born voting against the legislative proposal, generating online riots. Nobody wanted to give up on the language and subtitling! Romanians refused to align to Central- East European movement of dubbing films. Their arguments were related to the fact that having subtitles improves reading abilities, allows the viewer to listen to actors’ real voices, without losing the atmosphere. In addition, subtitling provides one of the first ways in which people can learn a new language, and is highly recommended to children.

Furthermore, the Internet is also a valuable resource, providing programs and games that help children learn languages. Websites such as fishsmarty.com (that offers the possibility to learn English language) contains educational games on vocabulary or grammar structure by identifying the missing letters and completing the sentences. The added value consists of the fact that these games help children process language by relating words to objects and images, improve reading comprehension and foster imagination. The games make grammar rules vanish and seem easier to comprehend by combining words in phrases and sentences which make sense.

Nonetheless, this is a positive example. Parents must keep in mind that not all the methods provided through the Internet can be used with good results when trying to teach your kid a new language. Therefore, parents must be very attentive and look for an online program that is highly interactive, playful and that would be stimulating through sound, color and content.

The classes held in kindergarten or at school are not enough for a child to learn a language properly. The parent’s responsibility is to offer him alternative methods that would complete what he is taught in school.

Recently, an article in the Telegraph reports Mark Zuckerberg claiming that the laws needed to change to allow children under 13 to join Facebook because: “My philosophy is that for education you need to start at a really, really young age.” Yet, how could Facebook (a tool developed for socializing and merchandise) and yet be suitable for children without judgement up to the point where it would become an educational website? Facebook’s ultimate goal is to conquer the world and be the largest virtual nation on the planet. Well, lets leave Facebook do that and the education in someone else's hands. Facebook can pretend it might become an educational site, but for the time being, at least, it lacks the means to fuse both socializing and education. Also, there is little expectation in the legislation to change in favor, allowing such young children to sign up. Facebook should stick to what it knows best and let specialized websites become educational resources.

Last but not least, practice is the mother of success and will bring the child ease in speaking new languages. A child learns without realizing and once he is exposed to a new speaking environment or culture he will learn like a machine. Travel with your kids, encourage them to explore, play and learn.

Explore the outdoor - part II

2011-06-20T15:11:00.000-07:00

Fish Smarty around the world

You, as a parent will soon discover that it will be easier for him to go asleep, even for the afternoon nap which is usually so problematic. He/she will be more creative since a lot of the childhood memories are defining and shaping the perceptions and sensations of the adult life.

Don’t oversupervise your toddle. Keep in mind that in order for him/her to gain independence and confidence he/she needs to have a greater freedom. Though outdoor games definitely can be riskier than indoors playing, you must first teach him some basic safety rules and then give him the space he needs to move freely. Don’t panic if falls and gets dirty. This is only normal!

Another great advantage of outdoor playing is that it encourages socialization and interaction between children. This is how they make friends, how they learn to behave with people their own age or how they can practice the language with kids just like them. Don’t forbid him to play with children you are prejudiced about. Let him get close to all his peers. This is how he will develop an open mind approach about people. Allow him to know how togetherness with kids his own age feels and to appreciate free play.

Fish Smarty around the world

Outdoor games are immensely beneficial to the wellbeing of your child. Let him learn from all the advantages that open air environment offers. He will not only be healthier, but more happy, outgoing and relaxed about the outer world.

Why play is vital - no matter the age

2011-05-30T07:00:00.000-07:00

Children who do not play with their hands, will have difficulties in life to resolve problems in life
Curiosity is part of the exploration and learning.
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Explore the outdoor - part I

2011-05-16T01:58:00.000-07:00

For children, playing and games represent one of the most stimulating means of learning. Moreover, if the playing environment is outdoors, then the success rate is guaranteed.

I’m sure we can all remember our own childhood games in open air – the fresh air, the larger space, the greater number of kids we played with, the unconstrained amusement and laughter. Educational studies have shown that among the benefits of being a part of games are improvements in IQ scores, race and social relations (children don’t care if their playing friends belong to a race or another or if they are rich or poor), attitudes and school results. Children find it easier to learn about animals, plants or birds, colours and sounds, so the open air space they play in, can become a kind of classroom, only freer and more energetic.

Outdoor games are also very beneficial for the children because they involve a lot of movement while they explore the environment, they become better coordinated, their flexibility and muscle strength increase and they can start to develop an interest for sports. They start to ride bikes, to skate and run vigorously. Remember that it’s always better for them to exhaust all their energy outdoors, where they can get plenty of fresh air and sunshine than being held indoors.

Child safety - Part II

2011-03-08T11:37:00.000-08:00

Now, let’s discuss a recent issue related to child’s safety – Internet safety. Generally, we do value very much our safety nowadays, given the Internet and its extraordinary power of exhibiting many personal data about each of us, including our children. Let’s face it, they are fascinated by this virtual environment. Interdiction is not a solution here. Interdiction will negatively counteract with child’s strong curiosity about the Internet.

Every child is genuinely curious, and it is not OK to keep him away from your big and fascinating PC. Browsing your computer, your child will learn to handle it, which will prove helpful later on in his life. But he will also learn to use Yahoo Messenger, to create an account on many websites containing games or other issues for children.

To protect your child from Internet danger, tell him very clear that he is not allowed to share private information on the Internet, especially if it happens to be contacted by a stranger. And don’t forget to check his e-mail or the list of websites that he visited.

Child’s safety is a must for every parent. Although life seems to be mostly hazardous, there are some aspects that one can predict. This is true for your child’s security too. It’s your responsibility, as a parent, to take every possible measure in order to make sure that your child lives in a safe environment and that he is surrounded by good people.

Happy Holidays

2010-12-23T01:15:00.000-08:00

Well, here we are. It is December, and this year is almost coming to its end. Some of us will fully enjoy winter time, with all its snow, lights and decorations – at home or on the street –, and with all the gifts received or given to others.

More often than not everyone spends holiday time, according to their culture and education. Most of us will stay close to their families – having a wonderful time, feeling happy and making others happy too.

Children absolutely love this time of the year, a time of harmony, peace and quiet. Generally, this period is almost like a fairytale, and especially children feel it this way. Which is perfectly OK, because fairytale stimulate everyone’s imagination and desire for doing good deeds.

There is nothing in this world that can make your child more even-minded than familial affection, love and care. The love he receives from his beloved family is what makes him grow into an upright and honest adult.

So leave all the worries behind, be kind and loving and gather all your family around. Joyful moments are coming, and you wouldn’t want to miss them! Little ones and growing ups – aunts, uncles, grandparents, nephews, nieces, grandsons, sisters and brothers – everyone should be together at the moment and enjoy a good traditional meal, a nice conversation and many wonderful gifts.

Pay attention to your child’s desires – it is best to fulfill them or, at least, try to do this in a proper manner. Maybe he wants a particular toy, a specific gift – it would be very nice to accomplish his wish! That way you can let him know that he is loved and that he or she is a good boy or girl of whom you are proud of.

Holidays are about love and family. And there is no proper moment than this one to let your child know that family is the most important thing we have. And that he is very special for his family too. Your child will be surrounded by affection and, therefore, he will learn to offer his affection to the ones caring for him.

If you wish, you can develop even more your child’s capacity of giving love. And you can also teach him to be generous and to help the ones in need. Unfortunately, there are many children that will not be with their families for the holidays. And fortunately, there are many people that can be there for them in one way or another. You and your child can be one of these people! It doesn’t take great efforts to make a lonely children feel happy and loved. A charity gift is a simple gesture to make someone smile and have a wonderful time. Moreover, by doing so, your child will learn to be good and sympathetic with other children that miss many of the things and affection that he, fortunately, receives.

Holiday time it is a perfect time for good deeds, love and sharing. Let’s spread the joy among people and children! There’s nothing more beautiful than that. Let’s cherish these once-in-a-year moments, let’s forget about trouble and have fun! Grab your child’s hand, sit together close to the fireplace, open each other’s gifts and, finally, tell him a wonderful story. Let him know that you love him more than anything and that you’ll always be close to him no matter what. He will feel protected and dearly loved. And there’s no greater reward in life for a parent than the happiness of his child.

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!

Child safety - Part I

2010-12-05T01:33:00.000-08:00

Do you remember some of the advice which nowadays may seem somewhat redundant or even old-fashioned: “Don’t talk to strangers!”, “Don’t accept gifts from unknown people!”, “Stay away from the cooker!” or “Close the tap!”? I’m sure that, be it old-fashioned or not, this kind of advice is still given by parents to their beloved children.

These statements of profound care mirror the parent’s urge to protect his or her child. According to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, our safety needs are fundamental, being one of the four basic layers of the individual’s “deficiency needs”, or “d-needs”, along with esteem, friendship and love, and physical needs.

In the first years of child’s life, parents must consider their breeding, as well as their safety. During childhood, parents always have an eye on their little children. But later on, they grow older and have to explore by themselves the big world out there. Therefore, you must make sure that, until then, your child knows his full name, home address and phone number. This information can prove helpful if he gets lost or if he encounters a problem. If such be the case, he will at least be able to identify himself and his family.

There comes a time when children must go to school. At this precise moment, parents start worrying more about the safety of their child, because he no longer spends every single moment inside the little, warm and secure environment that is your home.

The problem of child’s safety includes some well-known issues as bullying and stranger safety. Bullying is an aggressive physical or/and psychical behavior. For example, bullying can refer to violence, molestation or even verbal offences. You must explain very carefully to your kid that this kind of attitude exhibited by any person is an improper one and that no one has the right to treat others like that. You must encourage your child to immediately report this kind of behavior. He alone can’t handle such a problem, but you certainly can, as you are not only a grown-up, but also his beloved parent.

Child driven education - Part II

2010-11-04T06:00:00.000-07:00

The main thing that you have to do in this complex process of education is to stimulate the curiosity of your child. Have you ever noticed your 2 years old child handling your phone, or even “accidentally” calling his father at work? Have you ever thought that this fact might have something to do with learning? That this fact is not just a simple coincidence? Your child is curious about your phone, he saw you using it, and he heard his father’s voice out of nowhere. He wanted to learn how to use your phone and he did it by watching and imitating you.

This is one of the most familiar examples proving that if the child has an interest, then education happens. Children can learn anything. Their capacity of memorizing information is absolutely amazing. But this capacity must be stimulated. And this is the point where parents and teachers must give the child a hand.

Dr. Mitra’s conclusion consists in a speculation waiting to be demonstrated in the following years: “Education is a self organizing system, where learning is an emergent phenomenon…” This might be the future of education. This might lead to the emergence and implementation of various alternative and unconventional methods of education. On-line education is, definitely, one of them, and its importance is constantly growing. Parents panic too much about computers and internet. Children are smarter. They simply learn and enjoy using both of them. Given this context, all you have to do is to carefully and distantly supervise your child’s educational activities and general interests.

Child driven education - Part I

2010-10-27T13:05:00.000-07:00

What a curious title, isn’t it? Child-driven education… It seems almost impossible for many of us. But not for Dr. Sugata Mitra, an education scientist who made an interesting experiment called “Hole in the Wall”. In this hole he installed a computer with an active internet connection. Afterwards, the unschooled Indian children living in that low district started… browsing, playing games, google-ing and so on. Before that, they knew nothing about computers!!! For more details and an appealing speech, follow this link.

One of the main ideas of Dr. Mitra’s research is that “in the absence of supervision or formal teaching, children can teach themselves and each other, if they're motivated by curiosity.”

Curiosity – this is the nucleus of child-driven education. You can give your child anything: a computer, a book, or some new toys. If he is motivated enough, if he is curious enough about them, he will definitely learn how to use any of those objects. And here, the important aspect is not to use, but to learn.

Children can learn all sorts of things by themselves. They always did! Parents and teachers can guide them, but the fact is that it is preferable for them not to abusively invert in the process of education. We have to let our children some space, to let them express and experience their curiosity. This, indeed, can make the little ones progress in an unexpected and tremendous manner.

The idea is that your child must independently find the answer to the things that he is curious about. He must address questions and answer them by himself. You do not necessarily have to give him the answer. Amazingly, he is capable of finding it without any help from anyone.

Be Outdoor, Live Outdoor. Playing Sports. Part II

2010-10-03T04:17:00.000-07:00

These benefits are at least of two main types: physical and psychical. The first ones consist in a good health and growth of the child, due to the fact that his bones and muscle become stronger. At this point, it is appropriate to discuss about the risk that your child might develop injuries when playing sports. Some parents fear about this fact, but generally, there is no reason to act like that. If your child plays sports with a trainer and has adequate equipment during classes, then the situation is under control.

Psychical benefits may refer to an increasing level of energy, decrease of level of stress and, of course, brain oxygenation – all of them improving your child to concentrate better during school classes. Let’s not forget about the development of your child’s competitive skills. This aspect leads to another area of life benefit where the kid can register benefits from playing sports. I’m talking about the social area. Even if your child will make a career in sports’ field or not, he will definitely develop some essential leadership skills. Also, working in team will develop his capacity of interaction with other people. Your child will have a balanced social life, will be disciplined and emotionally poised.

Apart of all these physical and social benefits, here is the best aspect of playing sports: sports are fun, and kids absolutely love this part! If your child manages to play sports at least until high school, the statistics say that he has more chances to be an excellent student.

So, at some point, playing sports guarantees your child’s success in life! And this is extraordinary!

Be Outdoor, Live Outdoor. Playing Sports. Part I

2010-09-24T06:46:00.000-07:00

It is no secret for anyone: our society is more and more sedentary. Most of us work at the office, sit on the couch and watch TV for hours, or simply are not in the mood to take a walk or do some exercises. This is how many grown ups live nowadays. And, as I repeatedly said, kids imitate adult people.
Sports and locomotion are a way of life, a habit that every single person can learn. Therefore, for our kids and even for us, being dynamic is a matter of education.

What is the starting point in educating your child to be active and to live outdoor, not indoor? The simplest step you can take is to determine the kid to play sports, any kind of sport. Playing sports involves lot of physical movement and makes the little one get used to a healthy way of life. Any kind of activity that implies locomotion is good for your children (of course, it is recommended to ask for medical advice before proceeding into it). You can choose baseball, football, basketball, hockey, skating, tennis, volleyball, martial arts, soccer or swimming. Alternatively, remember that there are many outdoor activities that can fight a sedentary life: make a trip or even a journey, go for outdoor games, family activities, funfairs and so on.

How do you choose the perfect sport for your kid?
You have to take into consideration his age, his level of physical development and his personality. It is better if your kid starts practicing a sport at the age of 5 or 6 years. This is the period when he understands properly the ideas of coordination, organization and team work.

Regarding your child’s development, if he is feeble, he won’t manage to deal with the equipment, for example maybe he won’t be able to hold the tennis racket in his hand.
When it comes to personality, balance between individuality and sociability. If your child is lonely and shy, he might prefer playing a sport with a little group of children.

And finally, don’t push your kid into doing the sport you want. Give him the chance to discover what sports he likes and go for his option. And also don’t overstress him. The child needs to rest, therefore his training and learning program must be convenient.

Healthy diet tips for children - Part II

2010-08-22T04:26:00.000-07:00

So, it’s best if you set a timetable and make some appropriate portions of food. Especially if your kid is a picky one! Don’t ever force him to eat some certain type of food. Let him choose what he likes to eat and take care that his food intake is a proper one. This is fundamental! As fundamental as it is for you to use healthier cooking techniques: broiling, grilling, roasting, steaming, and not frying (especially deep-frying). And, of course, keep your child away from fast foods, sodas and fruit-flavored drinks.

Now, let’s see what food is to be given to your child.

Here’s a good starting tip: “An apple a day keeps the doctor away!” So give him fruits. They are so tasty! There’s no doubt that your child is going to like at least some type of fruit. If he enjoys apples or citrus fruit, it’s great, because these contain vitamin C. If he likes plums or pears, he will have a necessary potassium intake. If he wants apricots and nectarines, it’s good to know that these contain iron.

Of course, your child can’t and mustn’t have only a fruit diet. Don’t forget to give him vegetables. And, moreover, one glass of vegetable juice a day. This is even better than the fruit juice. You can choose carrots (rich in vitamin A), tomatoes (famous for the antioxidant benefits of lycopene), potatoes (high in vitamin C), green or leafy vegetables like lettuce and spinach (studies show that kids love these, and they are also low in fats and calories and high in proteins). Speaking of proteins, make sure you add some fish, eggs, beans or nuts in your child’s soup or stew. And give him some fiber too (preferably, whole-grain breads and cereals).

Whenever you can, try to serve or cook fresh ingredients. Otherwise, read the label on the products and stay away from foods containing colorants or other types of additives. If the name of the ingredient can’t be spelled, that’s not a good, natural or healthy food you’re holding in your hand! And, finally, the best advice ever: the more colored the fruits and vegetables are, the healthier is your child’s diet.

Bon appétit!

Healthy diet tips for children - Part I

2010-08-12T00:25:00.000-07:00

I guess nowadays people are more and more fascinated about the artificial, partially or totally forgetting the natural. This is a common aspect of a mostly artificial world. Because, let’s face it: “anthropic evolution” is not a natural one! I’m not saying that this is good or bad. After all, everything we’re doing in our lives is a personal choice.

Now let’s find out several wise personal choices that you can make in your child’s diet!

It’s already summer, so things should be easier now, thanks to the fact that there are a lot of healthy and natural fruits and vegetables you can choose from. Of course, it’s understandable that a healthy diet lasts more than the summer months. You have to make sure your child has a proper diet (almost) every day of the year.

Let’s discuss some aspects about the children’s diet step by step. Every child, from one to 10 years (or more) needs some amount of proteins, carbohydrates and fats. The difference from year to year consists of the quantity and the preparation method. A 1-3 years child needs 1300 calories a day, a child age 4-6 needs 1800, a 7-10 years one needs 2000 calories a day (1). Quite a lot, isn’t it?!

Well, children constantly grow, they have a lot of energy and they are very active, which means they certainly need food! What about food preparation? A small child mainly needs (tasty) soups, purees and natural juices. As he grows older, you can feed him little chunks of food, especially vegetables and fruits. Cut a stick or a slice of carrot, for example, and let your child “play” with it! There’s no doubt he is going to taste it! Given the fact that he’s so curious, he is capable of tasting everything.

That’s why you have to constantly keep an eye on him! OK, it’s quite predictable that when the child grows, he can join you at the table and eat almost like a grown-up! I say “almost” because now he’s watching and imitating you. So take care, because his eating habits are certainly yours. And they are long-lasting!

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How to make your kid smarter? Part II

2010-06-30T14:06:00.000-07:00

The parents have to stimulate their child when he’s just a baby.

If your child is precocious in many ways, there is no doubt he is a smart one! The fact that he promptly makes his first steps or says his first words is really a good sign. But you must stimulate his development at all levels: mental, physical, emotional and so on. Therefore, you must help him to walk, you must read him stories, let him watch non-violent cartoons, make sure that he interacts with many people (because this will help him communicate better), play quality music around him (this stimulates his creativity), show him your affection (this gives him a feeling of security and balance), talk to him more, let him imitate you because you, as a parent, are his most important role model.

You cannot and should not control your child’s whole life, but you can definitely influence it in a major way. And you have to start early! Because everything he’ll learn in the first years will be the foundation of his entire existence.

And this foundation must be a solid and a complex one. Your child has to develop a set of principles which will guide him in every action from now on. Teach your child to think, to count, to draw, to read, to play, to express his feelings and his thoughts, to be conscious at school. But take care not to limit his needs, wishes and abilities. Let him discover what he likes and wants to do. And if his path is a good one, trust him and let him continue on it!

Your smart child will definitely make you proud! Maybe he won’t be a genius, because this kind of development can also depend on genetics, as many studies have proved. But he will surely be a sagacious one, able to face many situations in life, and to find out and realize his unique potential as a human being!

Maybe he will not make a great difference in our world, but he will certainly know how to manage his life and to be a successful person. This is why you must struggle for your child to have a good education and to develop as much as possible when he is just… a child!

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How to make your kid smarter? Part I

2010-06-21T09:53:00.000-07:00

Isn’t this quite a challenge? Don’t we all want to have a smart kid? Oh, yes, we do! But how easy it is or, more precisely, what does it actually mean? Well, it is more complicated that we may think, but not at all impossible.

When we are talking about having a smart kid, we don’t usually refer to his IQ or to his level of knowledge. These aspects are rather used linked to grown-ups. When it comes to a child, everything is a matter of intuition. And this intuition is the child’s ability to surprise us in different situations, when we are puzzled by his rapid, new and smart reaction for a certain fact, or when we are bewildered by his fresh answer to a question, or by his simple and curious advice which seemed impossible for us to reach.

In order to have a smarter child, we have to stimulate his interest for everything in this world. He is always eager to find out new things. And we have to make sure that we don’t inhibit this childish and precious quality!

So what can we do? Well, we can excite his capacity of thinking, of filtering the reality or of analyzing facts and people. We must listen to our children. We must question and explain them all sorts of things. We must give them the correct answers when necessary. We must teach our children to speak properly, to be polite with every person they encounter and to be friendly and generous with other kids. These are common sense aspects, we all know them! That’s for sure!

Recycling the environment - Part II

2010-06-06T12:22:00.000-07:00

The child has the capacity to learn to recycle plastic, paper and glass. And you can be his teacher. You can assure your child some short sessions of ecological education. By the power of example, the little ones adopt the behavior of grown-ups. They are fascinated by the adult activities and even by the idea of becoming or acting like a grown-up. Tell your child about separate waste collection, teach him to use the recycle bins when he is outdoors, and to save energy and water at home. Tell your child that, without taking all these measures, the world will become ugly and poor and people will be very sad. Make your child aware of the bad impact of not recycling.

You, as an adult, should realize which are the positive aspects of protecting our environment. Recycling means saving. The quantity of waste reduces, so our earth is cleaner, because the pollution level goes down. Recycling means conserving the natural resources, which prevents the nature destruction. And last, but not least, the recycling process is cheaper than the production of materials (1).

It is very important for us to live in a clean and safe world. It is very important to be able to take your child for a Saturday walk in a beautiful park, or to organize a picnic with your family and to enjoy some fresh air in the middle of the nature. Take into consideration the fact that, for paper production, trees are being sacrificed. And, therefore, we have less oxygen, and our planet is not so green anymore.

Every green gesture, little as it may be, made by you, your child or by any other man, extends the life and health of our planet. Moreover, protecting the environment is a way of respecting the earth and all other people, but it is also a common-sense proof. After all, it is an equally ecological and ethical principle that can help us save the Earth.

Note: National Recycling Coalition, “Economic Recycling Benefits and Facts”. Last accessed on 14th of March, 2010 at < http://www.recycling-revolution.com/recycling-benefits.html >

Recycling the environment - Part I

2010-05-31T14:27:00.000-07:00

Nowadays, the sun still shines up in the sky, but it often struggles with some stormy clouds. This is a new battle, because in the past both the beautiful and the bad weather were doing fine together. The seasons still alternate, but, because of the global warming, summer and winter are longer than before. I think everyone realizes that the world is changing. But have you ever wondered what is going to happen if our world won’t be the same for you and your child?

As we all know, resources are exhaustible, unlike our needs, which are the opposite. Don’t skip this general truth, hoping that you and your child will have the chance to incessantly enjoy the resources of our world. Or that the nature will be large-handed in the future, and that air will be at least as breathable as it is now. Or that, from now on, we will benefit from paper in order to write, from energy and prime materials used to produce the objects we use everyday. No this will not the case!

In order to maintain the universal balance, you have to take measures to protect the environment. Not only you, but your child too, and so forth. From now on, children should be more aware of the world they live in and of the fact that it has to be protected. One way to achieve this goal is if ecological education was taught in the schools. Some of them probably offer this kind of classes already. But the education assured at home by you, as a parent, is most important. Don’t forget that you are the center of your child’s world. Therefore, s/he listens, observes and imitates you.

Tell your child about the nature, about our world, and explain him that the planet has to be protected. In order to make your child understand all these, take into account that s/he responds well to emotions, and tell your child that we are living in a happy world and that if we won't treat it with care, the earth can become very sad. And then make your child aware that he, as an inhabitant of our world, must accomplish a significant mission: the mission of protecting the planet.

(to be continued...)

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2010-05-06T09:04:00.000-07:00

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The Online Education - Part II

2010-04-09T11:32:00.000-07:00

The benefits of online education.

Why online learning?
Because you can learn at any time from anywhere. Goodbye boring and long classes. Parents can be part of the learning experience and attend their children while playing educational games.

One stop shop. Every child has his/her own way of learning, some learn via visual elements, some are learning by doing. In addition, parents have the chance to observe and monitor child's learning process without interfering via a proper reporting mechanism. An educational website could provide all these under one umbrella.

Expose to knowledge. Many of the educational programs are designed by teachers and educators across the globe, and some can not be found and learned from books. The home playground is the world wide knowledge.

Less intimidating than in the classroom. Anonymity provides a level of playing field undisturbed by age, gender or color. A child can take more time to think before making a decision rather.

Whether we like it or not, the Internet represents the future. And your child would better get used to it. Nowadays, many people have to attend classes in order to learn how to use the computer and to navigate on the Internet.

Today, the online medium is quite handy. So you can use the educational services offered by an adequate website whenever you like. You can use the didactic material as a primary source of education or as a secondary one, for thorough study.

If you supervise and guide your child’s interests on the Internet, you can successfully influence him or her to use it in a positive manner, and not just for playing games or doing other useless or leisure things that many children consider interesting.

Moreover, don’t forget that good educational websites are playful and meaningful. So they’re useful and pleasant at the same time. And this combination is always a successful one, regardless of one’s activity.

Note:
1. Coleman, Stephanie, “Why Do Students Like Online Learning?”. Last accessed on 29th of March, 2010 at < http://www.worldwidelearn.com/education-articles/benefits-of-online-learning.htm >.

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The Online Education - Part I

2010-04-04T04:20:00.000-07:00

In the following lines, we’ll depict the new trend called online child education. We’ll try to list some of the perceptions regarding on-line education, and also to present the main features and benefits of educational web-sites.

The education in our evolved society. Day by day, the world we’re living in evolves in a pretty fast way. And the Internet significantly contributes to this development, being our main informative source. The classic means of information – the television, the radio and the newspapers – are constantly falling off, and some of the media companies managed to adjust the content and to create their own on-line platforms. As a matter of fact, as we all know, there are already online libraries, publishing houses, second-hand bookshops and specialized online lectures. This means that persons like you and me educate themselves and gather information by this electronic mean, the Internet. The way we are accomplishing these activities is a personal choice, according to our interests and judgment.

Starting with the Internet’s development, people became suspicious about its effects on society, on individual life, and least, but not last, on children’s education. Today, people are wary of the Internet the same way they were recently of the television or, long ago, of cars, for example. But all these are specific evolution marks and, no matter how frightened we were by their novelty in the beginning, they all became de facto features of our world. And the Internet is on the right track. The Internet is booming. The presence of educational and trustful web-sites, whether they are for children or not, is a proof that the Internet can function and can be used in a good manner.

For example, you, as a parent, like to read news, watch movies and connect with friends on the Internet, or to learn and find out new things. Your child can have a great fun as well on the Internet, as long as the content is adjusted to his or her age and interests. You can explore and encourage your child behavior to use the Internet in a useful way, without losing time as most of the kids do, unfortunately.

When you choose a web-site as playground for your child, what information would you like to see? Put yourself in your child's shoes. It's not easy to make a selection, on one side you, the parent, and on the other side the child who wants to explore, play and have fun.

A child educational web-site must be simple, intuitive and easy to use. And its content must be catchy and diverse, colored and animated. The educational activities should not have to exceed the child’s age group. Don’t forget that learning is a gradual, proper and patient process. Children learn and assimilate information rapidly, and are moved and delighted by each new discovery. A child's brain in the early years is making connections that will last for a lifetime.

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The Importance of Play in the Learning Process

2010-03-17T07:17:00.000-07:00

Do you remember the moment when your child grasped with his or her feeble little hand an object existing in the house and started playing with it? Well, this is one fact that excellently proves your child’s creativity and ludic capacity. The little ones are driven by an extraordinary imagination which, adjoined with play, helps them discover the complex and fascinating world they’re living in. This is how they get to know their loving parents, their warm house and even their own person.

Many of us know that play is the prime purpose of life. The game is the major tool used by the little ones in order to discover the surrounding universe. This is why playing became an absolutely vital educational technique. For children, learning must occur in a playful manner. Moreover, the didactic material should correspond to the forenamed principle. As a matter of fact, it is preferable that the scenes and the characters represented in specialized books, movies and web sites to look like cartoons, to be somewhat fairy. And least, but not last, the teaching and learning methods have to be playful, flexible, stimulating and not at all boring.

The kids are extremely creative and have a great capacity of learning. But they must also acquire new knowledge through a learning process based on discovery. They don’t have to learn everything by heart. Like I said, playing is discovering. And that’s why the foundation of the learning process must be a ludic technique, and not a memorizing exercise. The least is not very effective. Usually, the information learned by heart is quickly forgotten and doesn’t persist within general or specialized knowledge.

The prime meaning of playing is fun. But playing is also an extraordinary way of making your child to get used to the idea of the (playing) rule. Every playful activity has a set of rules. Generally, the common sense rules organize the learning process and, furthermore, even one’s way of living.

How do the ludic techniques act upon children? From a logical point of view, playing stimulates the child’s curiosity, and makes him or her able to focus more during the learning process. Furthermore, focusing incites the overflowing creativity of the little ones. And the result is a bigger learning desire, a natural and relaxed acquiring of the new knowledge. In other words, the learning process will become pleasant, and not compulsory. The pleasant aspect of learning is essential. As long as the child learns things with pleasure you can count on the fact that he or she will always be interested in one or more school subjects.

When it comes to learning English as a foreign language, all the forenamed statements have a major relevance, and their observance is strongly required. When a child learns English, he or she filters the reality by means of an unknown or partially known language. And this is not an easy thing to do. Don’t forget that grammatical, syntactical and lexical English system is quite different from many other linguistic systems. Luckily, the little ones have a specific curiosity and a great capacity of acquiring knowledge. These are two main features that, adjoined with play, may facilitate very much the process of learning a foreign language.

The more playful are the tasks, the better will the children learn. The specialists say that children who are active players are also active learners. And this is a major advantage that every parent can successfully count on in educating their children.

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2010-02-20T15:12:00.000-08:00

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2010-02-17T08:13:00.001-08:00

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2010-02-09T06:14:00.000-08:00

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